Story Philippines | 28 November 2023

I can dream big because I have Jesus on my side- Jenny from Southern Philippines

 

 
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In a vibrant community of stilt houses, a 12-year old girl named Jenny is carving a new path for herself and future generations.

Jenny comes from a town that we cannot disclose in the southern part of  Philippines. And among the 13 Muslim tribes in her region, her tribe is one of the most discriminated – so much so, that opportunities for education seem far beyond her reach.

In Jenny’s culture, tradition often overshadows the pursuit of education, leaving many young people  like her to follow the familiar path of marrying at an early age, often as soon as they reach puberty.

Early marriage has long constrained the potential of countless young women in Jenny's community, which is why Open Doors local partners started a literacy class there – to give Jenny and many others like her an alternative option, and allow them the opportunity to dream.

Jenny usually helps her mother and sister at home with the chores. Her father toils tirelessly as a fisherman to provide for their needs, while her mother dedicates herself to nurturing their household. After helping her mother, she goes to school with her older sister, walking 30 minutes away from their home.

In school, Jenny says she is discriminated against by judgmental classmates and teachers who base their opinions solely on her tribal background. Consequently, she often finds herself isolated, without many friends. "They treat me badly because I can't buy the same things as them. Even though we are in the same place, they stay away from me. I also hear mean words, not just about me but also about my family."



Now in fourth grade, Jenny has a passion for learning that burns brighter than ever. With the literacy program, Jenny is not only equipped with the necessary tools to excel academically, but a powerful spark within her has been ignited – now, she can dream, and dream big. "Through the literacy program, I have developed strong reading and writing skills, enabling me to thrive in my studies," she shares.

Jenny’s favorite subject is math. She likes the thought of being able to solve problems – in fact, now, she can help her mom. “When mama and I go to the market together, I help her with counting the payment when we buy food.”

Today, Jenny stands among the top students in her class. “I want to make a positive difference in the lives of others,” she shares. “I want to be a teacher.”

Jenny and her family have endured immense heartache and distress as a result of the prejudice they face, simply because they belong to a low-ranking tribe. This cruel discrimination has led to devastating economic hardships.

"My father works very hard, day and night, going far away from home to catch fish and provide for our family. When he comes back, we all gather as a family on Sundays for worship, which is a precious and cherished time for us.“

Jenny’s father, a devoted fisherman, faces persecution alongside his fellow fishers. Criticized for his unwavering faith in Jesus, he is unjustly restricted from fishing in certain areas. These obstacles have amplified the challenges he faces, making it increasingly burdensome to sustain their livelihood. However, their difficulties are further compounded by rival fishers who seek to dominate the fishing grounds. This has resulted in threats, violence, and even killings within the community, leaving Jenny's father at constant risk. Despite these hardships, they trust that God will provide for their needs.

One particular day etched itself into Jenny's memory, as she witnessed her father shedding tears for the first time. "It was truly heartbreaking to see my father return home devastated after days of demanding work," she recounts, her voice breaking. During that time, there was chaos in the fishing area caused by rival fishers who resorted to violence and even targeted and killed fellow believers. “My father could not fish for several weeks due to the unsafe conditions,” Jenny continues. “It was a tough time for our family, but I am grateful that God took care of us and helped us.”

Jenny's unwavering love for learning shines brightly, even in the face of tremendous adversity. Despite enduring mean comments and judgment from classmates and teachers due to her tribal background, she remains determined and thirsty for knowledge. Her resilience and unwavering spirit inspire those around her, offering a glimmer of hope that challenges can be overcome with perseverance and support.



Jenny wants to express gratitude to the people who are helping her learn: "I am truly thankful for the support provided for the literacy class. It has not only helped many children, including myself, but also inspired us to dream big, knowing that we have Jesus by our side."

During Christmas, Jenny, and her family, along with their house church, come together for worship filled with singing and dancing, followed by a joyful shared meal. When asked about what she thinks of Christmas, she shares: "I absolutely love Christmas because it fills me with happiness! We play games, enjoy delicious food, and exchange presents. It is the only time I receive a gift, which makes it even more special for me!” She added, "Isa Almasih died for our sins. During Christmas, I remember how much He loves me and my family."

Last Christmas, Jenny wished for good health for her parents. She dreams of growing up and making her parents proud with God's help, as she envisions the person she will become. "I want to become a youth leader in the house church, like my older sister. I pray and hope that one day, I can help others grow in their faith, just as my older sister does now.”

 
The double vulnerability faced by Jenny’s family
Jenny comes from one of the poorest ethnic groups in the Southern Philippines. This ethnic group makes its living from boat fishing, but their efforts are frequently undermined by pirates at sea and prejudice from other tribes. Young girls like Jenny get married as soon as they get their period. Throughout the years, the government has labeled them as DOME people – deprived, oppressed, maltreated, and exploited. They face physical abuse that they are afraid to report to officials because they feel powerless. When young girls are forced into marriages with older men, they are often unable to refuse, especially if their parents receive large sums of money. These tribes also experience further discrimination and persecution on top of these difficulties. They encounter economic marginalization, few job possibilities, restricted access to essential amenities, healthcare, and infrastructure, as well as social isolation, limited access to basic services, and land conflicts. Once members of such tribes turn their back on their faith and believe in Jesus, they face a double vulnerability: they are already marginalized because of their tribe, and they face persecution within their community because they follow Isa-Almasih. Being known as followers of Jesus exposes them to more discrimination, belittlement, denial of benefits, and exclusion from the community. Their marginalization is exacerbated by stigmatization and stereotypes, and their lack of political representation makes it difficult for them to have an impact on policies that affect their rights and well-being.
 
please pray

1. Pray for Jenny's continued strength and perseverance in her pursuit of education and her dreams. Ask for God's guidance and protection as she faces challenges and discrimination, and for Him to provide her with the support and encouragement she needs.

2. Pray for Jenny's family and their economic hardships. Ask for God's provision and protection over her father's fishing endeavors, and for their livelihood to be sustained. Pray for an end to the persecution and violence they face, and for peace and harmony within their community.

3. Pray for Jenny's spiritual growth and her desire to become a youth leader in the house church. Ask for God's wisdom and guidance as she seeks to serve others and help them grow in their faith. Pray for her to be a source of inspiration and support to those around her, and for her family to experience God's love and provision in their lives.

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